This will be the second edition in the series.

I am very excited to be writing a second edition because I got amazing reviews from the first one. A lot of people left me messages in my Dms and expressed how well they enjoyed the first edition and are anticipating the next post.

I would also like to apologise that this edition is coming late but your girl hasn’t been feeling too good hence why I am just writing this edition now.

In this edition, I will be correcting some beliefs that my previous post has unconsciously created and also give you the alternative just incase you do not see any signs.

So let’s get into this edition;

Now in the previous edition, I spoke about you using Google to quickly check a few things on the signs incase you aren’t well versed in that area.

A lot of people took this to mean that I encouraged you lying to the lady. No, that is not the case.

I’m simply advising you do this as a conversation starter. The thing with lies is that you actively have to keep up with them and if she finds out that you’re lying then you’re busted.

What I advice you do is simple, say something along the lines of ‘ I am not quite a fan of anime but I have stumbled across a couple episodes of this anime online….’ or ‘is that ____ wow, I have heard a lot about it. Would you share your thoughts about it

You know just be creative with it, I repeat Do not lie but be genuine in a creative way. Trust me when your relationship with her develops, it will be one of those things that you will both look back on and laugh about.

Now that I have cleared the air on that, let’s move on to the main take home of this edition, what to do when you have watched but there is no sign in sight.

Now don’t go off and say hi or give a Compliment, like I said in the previous edition, this sets up a universal trigger in her head that literally sounds like this Avoid him!! Find a way to get out of this situation now!!

Now you don’t want this to be your fate, so instead this is where some Precise Compliments can play in.

Keyword : Precise

So don’t say, “you are the most beautiful girl I’ve ever seen” or something like that. Hell no! Why? Because you are laying it on too thick too soon.

At this initial state, when she hears that, she immediately thinks back to girls that she has seen who are way more attractive than her and then she comes to the conclusion that you’re just gassing her up.

Women can smell insincerity from a mile away so don’t do that.

This is not saying that women don’t enjoy Compliments like that but you’re using it too early in the game. If you both were romantically involved then of course that Compliment will make more sense to her.

But as of right now, you are just a stranger and have not earned the right to evoke any positive emotion or feeling in her by using that line.

Instead, walk up to this ginger haired and green eyed beauty (yes, I’m sticking to the same example from the previous edition. So if you haven’t read the previous edition then sucks to be you…. I’m just kidding you can go check that one out after reading this one) and compliment her ginger coloured hair, her green eyes or the colour of her purse or anything.

The key here is a PRECISE and GENUINE Compliment. Make sure it’s a combination of both for this to work and then work it in with a grin or a wide smile.

This tells her 2 things; one that you took time out to actually notice her and two you are a sincere guy.

And then you go from here.

I hope this edition was an interesting read and really insightful.

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Till next time,

Your friendly writer.