Hello dear reader,

You’re probably wondering why I start most of my blog posts with this line.

Well that’s a mystery best left for another day.

Although, what we can discuss today is the Principle Of Congruence.

I mentioned it in my last post and as promised I will explain what it means here.

Well in plain terms, this principle means you should always establish a flow between where one’s mind is and where you want it to go.

So basically if someone was viewing something on the net using their mobile and you want to get their attention after they press link then you should make the page that they are headed to optimized for mobile viewers

A disregard of this principle will be showing them a page that is optimised just for desktop viewing only.

It’s a principle mostly familiar to content creation so it’s fine if you don’t grasp the meaning at first.

But relating that principle to The Art Of Approaching A Woman. It means that if you see her at an art exhibition then first talk about art until you’ve discovered any of her other interests.

This will help you better establish a flow and connection with her.

I’m sure at this point you understand what this principle means.

Unfortunately this might be the last edition on The Art Of Approaching a woman.

Don’t get too excited yet as no you have not graduated the class.

Women are complex beings, you can spend a lifetime studying them and you will still be amazed that the next day they are exhibiting a whole new different trait.

Rather than studying women, study your woman, know what makes her laugh, what she prefers, how she gets when she’s angry or sad.

Know when to retreat and when to engage. Even down to her favourite pet name to be called. You can keep a journal or a locked note on your phone where you have these informations about her.

And no this is not stalking if you are both in a relationship or about to be in one, as long as both parties consent to being attracted to one another and ready to put in the work.

I saw a video the other day on Tik Tok where a guy did this for his significant other and I just had to save the video because of how cute and thoughtful it was.

Bottom line is look for ways to always impress your significant other or potential significant other and this goes both ways. As the energy should always be reciprocated.

Well that’s a wrap. I’m sad this series is coming to an end but look forward to my Dos and Don’ts ( males and females edition)

Till next time,

Your friendly writer.