What are the odds of you being kill3d by a shark¿

One in 4 million. 

What are the odds of a female being sexually assaulted¿

One in six. 

Your fear of sharks is seen as rational while women fear of men is seen as delusional. 

I find it comical how everytime I bring up my plight some guy has the guts to tell me choice of clothing is a valid reason for a female being sexually assaulted. 

Emphasis on Valid Reason! 

What I even find more ironic is that women also subscribe to this school of thought. 

So then care to explain to me why 6 months old babies get assaulted¿¿ Or why men are also victims of assaults¿¿ 

Or do we now have different valid reasons for s3xual assaults cases¿¿

Ask any female you know and I bet you everyone of them can signify to being assault3d or harass3d. 

Now think about for a second. 

This is a society where your mothers, sisters, wives, nieces and even your daughters are going to grow up in. 

Now I pray that you don’t have to look any of these females in your life and tell them that they suffer such fate because of their choice of clothings. 

Whilst we are on this topic, might I state that you do not and I repeat do not have the right to tell a victim of s3xual assault how to react. 

You don’t wear the shoes so you don’t know where it hurts. 

Maybe your advice will be more meaningful when you’ve gone through it and then you can tell yourself to be calm and relax and just move on with your life. 

Despite all the awareness on mental health going on, you fail to see the connection of assault with trauma, depression, anxiety and many more. 

By the way, I know it’s not All Men but it’s All Women.

Before we put a pin in this, I saw a video the other day that says, Let’s replace the word Rapist with Rap3r so it sounds less like artist, florist, therapist and more like murd3r, adulter3r, kill3r. 

Have a lovely day, 

Your friendly writer.