I saw this a couple weeks ago and I just had to share it with you. There are 5 love langauges that we all know about; Quality time, Physical touch, Gift giving, Acts of service, Words of affirmations. but I bet you do not know that your destructive tendencies are linked to the love language you prefer the most.

If your love langauge is Quality time, Your destructive behaviour is you crave isolation. You tend to deprive yourself of that Quality time that you so much crave.

If your love langauge is physical touch, your destructive behaviour is avoiding human interaction. You notice that when you spiral down you don’t want anyone touching you.

If yours is Gift Giving, You don’t feel worthy for getting new things. Your destructive behaviour is denying yourself of nice things because you feel undeserved or unworthy of those things.

While for Acts of service, It’s the messy room, the piling dirty clothes and dishes, basically things undone. If your love langauge’s acts of service then you’re down or sressed you tend to neglect all the tasks that you have to do.

If your love langauge is words of affirmation, your destructive  tendency is negative self talk. You do not see anything good in yourself so you talk yourself down all day.

Closing Remarks

I was a bit surprised when I found this piece of information so I decided to share it with you. What do you think? Is this correct?