I think it’s time we talk about this. At least once in our lives, we have had that one friend who seemed so crazy over boys. Like they had to have attention of every boy who walked the surface of the earth.

If you’re like me and you have had the ‘priviledge’ of meeting these types more than once in your life, how did you deal with them?

For me personnally, boy crazy women are never on my checklist for long term friendships or freinships at all. Here are a few reasons why.

First, I’m a very reserved person. I don’t like to draw unnecessary attention to myself. I’m te type to attend a function and just sit in a corner and observe everyone else or the type to be quiet at the dinner table.

For boy crazy women, this is not their lifestyle, they need to be the sole focus of evey gathering and garner the attention of every boy within a 3 mile radius. They are often loud, pretentious and just overrall annoying.

They switch between personalities so fast that you can get a whiplash. Each personality to suit the next male. And often times they come with 2 of my least favourite triats, whiny and clingy.

Being their friend can be exhausting because for one, they always have to attend every social function and as the intorvert that I am, that’ just draining. If you are an extrovert and you enjoy going out, well they can leave you at said event without even a second glance to be at the beck and call of a man they met there. This in particular is a trait of a bad friend.

As if that’s not enough, the topping of the cake is that they never like it when you receie even the slightest attention, god forbid anyone bests them. They are prone to getting jealous and even acting on that jealously. They try to put you down in every way they can and when you get any attention, they try to run the guy off.

It’s almost like they are stuck in this delusional world where the sun and moon revolves around them. I met a boy crazy woman in my first year of university. She wasn’t exactly my friend but we hung out a lot.

At first she come off as a really classy girl so we temporarily hit it off but I soon realized that what she really wanted was soemone to control to appear even cooler in front of men, at first I didn’t care. I wasn’t looking for the attention and just wanted to get through it.

After a while I began noticing, she interpreeted everything that hapepend in relation to her which was enevr a good sign. If the birds flew close to her then it meant they were attracted to her beauty [ okay maybe that’s a stretch] but she really was delusional.

Then I noticed she thrived of making other girls feel less and spreading rumors about them which was the final stretch for me. She would constantly undermine another girl who was boy crazy which was really baffling to me because there was much similarities between both girls.

To cut the story short, I drifted away from her, she didn’t make the cut for the second year so we haven’t crossed paths since.

Closing Remarks

Beware of Boy crazy women, they are never your friends regardess of how nice you may think they are. For one promiment reason, a boy even if they just met him will always be placed above you every single time. It’s usually a one sided friendship, because you are really just friends with yourself.