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I’ll share the 25th lesson on Christmas Day.

Lesson 24: Don’t stay just because I’m afraid of how they will react when I leave.

Lesson 23: I may not be perfect but when I look in the mirror I better love what I see.

Lesson 22: If I don’t want to, just say no.

Lesson 21: I don’t need a reason to look good, feel good or spend my money on myself.

Lesson 20: Just because I feel it does mean it valid or that I need to act on the feeling.

Lesson 19: If I don’t treat myself well, no one will.

Lesson 18: Aim to be beautiful not pretty. Beauty comes from within.

Lesson 17: If they cared, they would.

Lesson 16: I can walk away the moment I don’t feel respected.

Lesson 15: If I don’t take care of my body where will I live.

Lesson 16: You couldn’t have made it this far without God.

Lesson 15: Always remember to Thank God for even the little things.

Lesson 14: I don’t have to go if I know I won’t be happy there

Lesson 13: I need to tell my parents I love them more often while they are still here.

Lesson 12: People always know what they are doing.

Lesson 11: Know your real friends

Lesson 10: You may not like me but respect is not negotiable.

Lesson 9: If it’s not you they want it from then you are wasting your time.

Lesson 8: Every relationship is transactional, I only give in relation to what I know I would receive if the roles were reversed.

Lesson 7: When I need space, I need space.

Lesson 6: Just because I can fix it doesn’t mean I have to.

Lesson 5: Never be kind because of what you expect in return, if you want to do good, Just do it

Lesson 4: Know who loves to cry with me but never smiles at my wins.

Lesson 3: Shut up. Not everything has to be said.

Lesson 2: Jealousy comes in jokes, Pay attention.

Lesson 1: God loves me even when I think he doesn’t.


8 responses to “24 lessons I’ve learnt this year.”

  1. elvyeditorial avatar

    Really valid life lessons there!

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    1. Write_rspace avatar

      Thank you. It’s been quite a year

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      1. elvyeditorial avatar

        Same here! Wishing you a happy and peaceful 2024 and a merry Christmas too

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      2. Write_rspace avatar

        Thank you. Happy Holidays 😊

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  2. Moumita Sarkar avatar

    Inspirational life lessons! Lesson 5 resonates—doing good without expecting in return. Which lesson has impacted you the most personally?

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    1. Write_rspace avatar

      The lesson that impacted me the most came earlier on the list. It was Lesson 23.
      All my life and I still find it happening now, I’ve been obsessed with being perfect.
      Perhaps it was because while I was growing up, I was always told that I was the perfect child, I didn’t make too much fuss, I wasn’t naughty, I got perfect grades.
      So even now I still hold myself to some ridiculous standards and kind it out to step out of the expectations of those around me.
      But I’ve learnt this year, that I don’t need to be perfect before I allow myself to love the version of me I see in the mirror.

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