It’s important to give yourself grace, it’s your first time living too. 

You didn’t get a manual or a how to book so you shouldn’t always know what to do. 

You will make mistakes over and over again but it’s nothing to hurt yourself over. 

I always remind myself to talk to myself as if I’m my loved one. When we correct those we love, we don’t do it by berating or yelling at them. We do it with kindness because we don’t want to hurt their feelings. 

That’s how you’re supposed to speak to yourself.