I don’t think love makes us do crazy things. I think the desperation to be loved makes us do the crazy things.
There’s a difference between being in love and wanting to be loved. A lot of people when they so badly want to be loved mistake that for being in love.
When you stay in that abusive relationship, you’re not crazy in love you’re desperately wanting to be loved even if it comes with a few scars. You love them, you tell yourself but what you really are doing is trying so badly so be loved.
I saw somewhere once that you can tell how much someone loves themselves by the partner they choose and that is so true.
You can gauge how much people love themselves by how willing they are to put up with certain situations believing falsely that it will change.
Isn’t hope a scary thing when used incorrectly?
